I was a female graduate of Shaanxi Normal University fooled

 She did not want the information public, but he did so angry I was. Her name is Zhu Rui flowers, Shaanxi Normal University graduate student, Linguistics and Applied Linguistics, Kenji year, and now as an exchange student to the University of Macau.  before the phone is in Xian: the campus home page: = 0. I was deceived her, by her playing, she use her as a meal ticket also. Surprisingly, while the female graduate students, Shaanxi Normal University one of the best students, undergraduate in Shaanxi Normal University, Shaanxi Normal University graduate and walks, and now went to the University of Macau. I know the years with her, she pretended the one hand, and my friends look pretty, often play together, eat together, and you can watch movies,UGG boots cheap, eat in a bowl, you can head on my shoulder, I can open some sensitive jokes; the other, often deceive me, use me, I never took the initiative to introduce her friends, and even to prevent contact with her friends and I have never and I do not want a photo. Of course, with her flowers when I'm basically out the cost. She and I met in 2005, the end of October 2005 the first meeting. And she knew just when to see her every time, allowing me a week are very happy. I found myself in love with her. At that time I think she also me as her friend. But not long before she slowly no longer regard me as a friend - and I became her meal ticket, or purse. From 2006 to August 2007 this period of time, every time I go to their school to find her every time she meet me outside the school, and then took me to hang out, and then out to eat, and finally I paid mostly by . Several times, I sent her text messages saying that I had come to the library, she was first to the National Taiwan Normal University, Normal Road and then tell me see. I could see she was afraid other people see me and her in one piece. Once, in the Normal Road West Side, next to foreign language in front of newsstands, under a drizzle, a U.S. student riding her bicycle with his Vietnamese girlfriend from passing through. Their brief chat with her and deliberately back towards me, and I get in the side. I was standing there embarrassed, that American students also use different eyes looked at me, he was sure of my identity, in the end he did not know I was her friend or passing. She was even unwilling to introduce each other. Or that day, she and I continue shopping, her classmates called her and said what you do. I do not mind busy with other things she went, but what happened next made me quite unable to understand. She and I went to the gate of Xinhua Bookstore, National Taiwan Normal University, she suddenly squat tie their shoes, so she stood up, said one: I found this time, next to her two students, and a woman. I stood there for a stay made, and I suddenly see why she and two other people go, and actually did not even acknowledge him once, as if she absolutely does not and I shopping. Can you imagine you and your friends are shopping, your friend suddenly left with another person, and you did not even acknowledge to play? A similar thing happened a lot, also relatively long time, many of them remember. Early August 2008, I went to Beijing, by the end of May 2009 and from Beijing back to Xi'an. Not met this time, things did not happen too much. I mainly wrote about back in 2008 from Beijing to Xi'an, I happened upon. The end of May 2008, I returned from Beijing, Xi'an, not too long and put a summer vacation. News throughout the summer without her. National Day 2008, she finally called me, about my National Day a stroll. But this day has undergone some things I do not understand. At the College gate, she wanted to buy a brush. According to tradition, the boy should take the initiative to pay for the girls. In pay, I put a piece of money out of the ground. She picked up the money simply said: Then she put the money in her purse. Sell brush that looked at did not say anything. She was loaded with wallet out, the money taken out yet. I never took wallet, money is always installed in the pants pocket. When I get money, took out a bunch of money this way. I saw the piece of money out of my hands. But she asked the sentence I do not want her because of money problems and disputes - even though the money really goes to me. Simon Trust-Mart in the afternoon to buy things, but also the money I paid. After I paid the money, the cashier gave me for change. I was on to something to the plastic bag, no spare some time to pick, she picked up the money. When I installed the thing, she had to change stuffed into their own wallet. I did not say to what have happened the same as I do not want to embarrass her, but do not want change because they undermine the relationship between me and her. Keep the change much, can not a small thing, this is a person's character, quality, integrity. The end of October, she and I talk about her roommate, referred to one of the L. Later, I found the Internet at school L, would like to add as a friend know about. But the friends list L does not find her name, I'm not sure the L is not her roommate said that, perhaps the same name. So I sent a message to ask L know do not know her. Give me back the information the results of L, said: It left me very puzzled, and she mentioned in front of me L, and L said she did not know. About 11 months time, she wants to see a classmate Z. Z is her high school classmates, my college students, we know through Z. Z lives in the city of Xi'an, Kitayama electronic gate village, I live in the electronic instrument the way Shatuo east village, only three or four stops away. I said I want to go (after all,Discount UGG boots, between us all know), but she said a lot of reason to let me go, and says he would have time to find me. 6 o'clock in the afternoon when the fast, she called me and said her 5-way car, asked me if I did not have the time, thought came to me. Answer the phone when I heard the bus and reported to the station I was wondering why it got to call me to sit. Later, I realized that if she returned Normal Chang'an District, to take a bus to Yang village, 5, and then take 321 Chang'an Road to Normal campus. If the place where I live, not to do take the 5 bus. And that there are doubts. Since I intend to find, why not first call me to ask how the car, not first get the car back to school and then come to me. Thought for a long time has finally figured out where she went away from the Z is back to school, back to school then got into the car, and then gave me a call, come find me. She not only can find me, they can hide on the Z looking for my plan. Z did not know she was looking for me. The end of December 2008, I declare to her, and she refused me. But to her winter break three times before we met. In the third meet. A meeting she said to me, apologize to me (why should I apologize I forgot) in the evening to ask me to dinner. I am very happy. However, in Yang village, her drink cup (perhaps that name), I said sorry, I no money today, get your pay. I was really nervous economy, my classmates and urgent need of money borrowed my money, so have no money, I had students come at night to pay the money back. Finally, she paid two dollars, her expression was a bit too good. After buying the cup, we went to the village of Simon Yang, she said she should go back. I said nothing, but was a little uncomfortable. Yang village in the east of us, she added to invite me to dinner, I apologize, the results went to the village west of Yang said to go back, only took place in between the top of the cup from her pay for things . Because I was no money, can not ask her to dinner, and I do not want to let a girl invited me to dinner. The next day, she went home. I'm going to send her text messages say, she did not reply. During the Chinese New Year is not for me. New Year at home, me and my sister my brother talking about her. My sister and my brother asked two questions: who, when closing dinner, her phone I can not see. Basically, when she and I eat that I pay the bill. Her cell phone I usually do not have courage to chance, let alone read the contents of her cell phone. When she normally would call a dozen meters away from me. My sister and my brother that she might regard me as a meal ticket, catch the Celtics, let me be more careful, do not be fooled. At that time I did not tell them too much, and I just told them I like her. And my sister and my brother said to her if I tell the truth, she would disown me. The fact that positive they say, I told her confession, she did ignore me, ignore me several times after, but also tried and I stay out of it. Years after the first meeting, she and I talk about my sister and my brother's words. At that time she asked my opinion, I said I think she is not the case, I believe her. In fact, I have some doubts about her, but I do not believe she was like that. I'm really silly, my sister my brother and I said so to remind me, I actually put all these words said to her, I too believe her. April and May of 2009, my school and QQ in the space of her message that she is the most beautiful girl. Like what if they are not ill, just a joke between friends. She actually direct me to delete from friends and closer to the blacklist. I suddenly felt my Quick summer vacation, I went to Shaanxi Normal University to find her. She said that the Confucius Institute volunteers did not elected. I asked why, she said that we are powerful, her lack of capacity. It's that simple sentence. After a while the application of a Confucius Institute with her sister school volunteers to call her, she said: re-election from the other schools ... ... She keeps saying that I was her good friend, and that the so-called sister school, but registration volunteers because the only known, at most, will be regarded as ordinary friends. Her sister school of interpretation that is very detailed explanation to me for answering such a sentence. We get along very well during the summer, often play together, go to the cinema with 3D watched the movie shoulders, and sometimes some of the more sensitive, and I started a joke. When she went home before the National Day message me that today is the Bank of China Mobile organized activities on campus the last day, let me help her handle the Campus Tour. Then I sent her text messages saying I have something, I am afraid can not help her handle the. I worried about the next day it happened, she again ignored me. Since my confession to her every time she came home and ignore me. I gave her a lot of text messages, playing a lot of phone calls,UGG boots, would like to know what happened in the end, she has ignored me. She had to call home because I gave her and furious, but I want to know what happened in the end. Hesitated for a few days after the last phone calls to her home. The first time, hung directly after the call is connected. I do not think that there Grab the phone to another to play it again. Once connected me to find her, the other is her sister, her sister is not, then severely hung up, I have no time to say a word. I do not understand why her sister I am so rude. A few days ago was all right, let me help before returning home but also charge calls, and shortly a home to ignore me. So I hit the third time, her sister pick up the phone directly scolded me: On the one hand, and I pretended to be friends, on the other hand in front of friends and family put on a false impression that I wrapped around her. Occurred prior to re-think those things made me finds the idea. After a month's time, I did not contact her before. A friend and I talked about until the matter. My friend said some girls do mind people calling her home. And I have been hard to believe for so many years I have known the girl would take me as a meal ticket, I think, between me and her have any misunderstandings. I tried to contact her, but she still ignored me. The end of November, I spent a month, playing numerous calls, finally opened up her phone. She said the results of going to Europe, the Portuguese-speaking countries, which country is uncertain, the day after tomorrow and leave. Volunteers defeat, the Confucius Institute, and she gave me to help her download Portuguese tutorial. I am curious to ask how suddenly remembered learning this, she said, suddenly interested in trying to learn. I know that this time she asked me to download the Portuguese tutorial is to go abroad, rather than a sudden wanted to learn. Again I am being exploited. She told me this In addition, she is not go to Europe, but to Beijing, the Beijing Foreign Studies University for a month to learn Portuguese, not even that she should lie to me. She came back from Beijing by the end of December, I went to their school early in the morning the door to take her - to the early train, I do not have time to go at the station. I would like to take advantage of this opportunity to talk with her, if there is any misunderstanding can be explained. Met, I helped her across the road onto the box from inside the school gates, and then she let me go back, I said I help you onto the bar downstairs quarters. She did not want, and then took out his cell phone to the police. I had no choice but let go a few steps back to her box. After a while her roommates L (above that) over, and she directly over and hold her roommate cried, saying that encountered rogue has. I think this time came forward to explain I just want to drag the box to help her quarters only. And she took out a mobile phone alarm, the call is connected to the police that I was rogue. I had no option but to leave. Later, a friend and I mentioned this, she told me to give up her again and warned me that her contacts have to be careful not to get into trouble. I asked what that meant, she said, careful of jail, not just this girl, too shenanigans. Although I suspect that this time she took me as a meal ticket, but I think that is more a misunderstanding between her and me. Even if the above things happen, I am not angry with her, I made a special call to the Z to Z to help comfort her. I have been trying to find opportunities to talk to her, good communication about. But she always wanted to talk to me, I did not know why she ignored me. January 7, 2010, Lunar Nov. 23, her lunar birthday. I sent her text messages to wish her a happy birthday and told her: the time, and I see the side, talk about, communicate about and resolve the misunderstanding between us. But I have not seen such a letter a few days. Until January 13, just her Gregorian birthday, I finally lost patience - in order to understand the events of National Day, I spent 3 months trying to communicate with her, but she not even giving me the cold. I hold back a belly full of fire, sent her a text message, saying that from now on, you and I no longer friends, I will not do your meal ticket. But she did not receive, I am not a consumer of gas, there is in school to give her three students made the same information, so that they convey. Later, a high school classmate and her T (I mentioned her name, I add as a friend of the school) opened in the school on the curse, T also threatened me to find someone to beat me. I yelled a little bit hard, since no such abusive terms from the high school people. After this, she finally agreed to talk me out. However, she is willing to talk to me just because I called her at the same table. Just met, in the side of the road, she said to me: to talk about, did not think she even want to listen to me on the street a few words on the back. I am a little upset. She said: I stood there not moving, has been watching her, I want to see how she would do in the end. She made a phone call, to see me still standing there, so call me in the past. I do not want to meet the hard-won confused the two sides are not very good, so he passed. KFC where we talked about two hours, she was always in tears so I forgive her. However, she was not what she had done a reasonable explanation, but forgive me blindly. In the past, and she contacts me, I apologize to her but she never accepted. In addition, she is only an apology apology, courtesy of an apology, did not acknowledge any errors. Finally, she asked if I would not send messages to her friends, and I said no. Her face looked a little satisfaction, this conversation will end. In fact, I very much hope and her friends become friends, and her friend made that information is not my intention. I was just not anything in starting the fire, sent her information was not any before it, so they want to convey about it. March, I sent her the information again, wanted her to explain what happened before those things. Replied that she gave me to use the law to resolve. Again I am angry, when I put these things as emotional problems, she was always to use legal means to resolve. Are so many years and she knew that she always took me as a friend, only interest only? If a legal solution, I can not win. On the one hand, and I pretended she looks good, on the other hand in front of her friends put on a look by my struggle, and I have never posed. Or, I can not prove me and that she was In front of her friends said that my words are interesting, I heard about, such as: the bad things about me, but also left a tolerant impression. But in front of me has never put me as a friend, and often say it is not my friend. The end of April, I again tried to contact her, hope she can explain those things. That when she first came to the University of Macau. She is extremely bad attitude for me, and finally I said, if someday I am sad, I will and I write down things between her posted online. Early next morning, she sent me an e-mail, said she had come to the University of Macau, and when I could not interview, but you can QQ on the talks. Early May, we talked about in the QQ, more than an hour. She still does not explain those things happened before, just blindly say that they feel bad,cheap UGG boots, and should I pay the money back before me. Since I said that she took me as a meal ticket, she has repeatedly said that I should pay the money back to me, I did not accept. According to Chinese tradition, with a meal or buy something, should pay the bill by the boy. I pay for her it should be, do not get what she thought of from. However, she treat me as a meal ticket and wallet. Now many girls like this. QQ next day I gave her the information, replied that she was not, was her roommate. Later, the What a joke, I was someone else as a meal ticket, I just want an explanation as far as saying I am not a gentleman, had become my not. And throughout, the so-called QQ third day I gave her the information, she simply ignored me, and until now did not reply to the message. I thought she was very busy but also no care. I think since I am willing to communicate, and can only use QQ to contact, and that should be added as a friend of the bar. Add as a friend, but I applied for, and now there is no news. It makes me feel to be teased again. That is to communicate with me, but loaded the victim in front of me, but also found a name I do not know even the It is to communicate with me! I felt I was teasing again, and very angry. So I wrote these words, I will gradually open to what she had done, for all to see her in the end is what kind of person. I can not believe her, she did deceive me do too much, said too much cheating me. Recently chaotic mind, not detailed enough to write in some places, but they are the real thing. In addition, related to the names of other people I do not open, only name the first letter of the alphabet, said.