Monday, October 18, 2010

I remember a friend said upstairs

 6 months job, I think this should not be called work, at most, just warm up to the company, one month can not be familiar with this company, not to settle into the job, of course, failed to learn any working experience. I advise being friends change jobs frequently, to more patient, every job has something to learn, have value, we can not change jobs too often, this is actually not learn anything. I, too, if I'm not such a rapid change jobs, then maybe I will mix better, and in a particular industry will get some results.

to Suzhou, a long time not looking for work, not how to find a job, face the outside of the gossip I do not hear a word. Worried look every day to see their parents, although they do not say, I was also extremely painful. Once,UGGs, to study, how much effort parents spend, how many places to run around, you can read the university, but I still stay home, eat at home, living at home, but here is not home, where parents work.

become more and more hot weather, I have to be the impatient, as if out of a job opening, here is the city of Suzhou, a rural town, there is no formal job market, only a talent Agency, 200 referral fee, the work does not do a good job refund. Soon, I found a business that is doing the work. From one of China's largest commercial center suddenly came to a small town, only to find really good here, little good is small, very crowded roads, particularly the types of vehicles, traffic lights, especially small, in short, all the mess. There are too many to private owners, many billionaires, if it is really capable of, there are opportunities everywhere, gold, full of banknotes, and I did not.

This is a very small is a human enterprise, the annual output value of 10 million or so, I was in the shops where foreign trade is done, the basic salary is 1,500 yuan. Done a few days only to find, the company did not trade business, has not the same as in Shanghai, running around out of business sales team has a special business model here, perhaps this is the difference between industries. Most are some old customers, (yes, forgot to say. This is a textile company, the boss is a grassroots hero), to look at shops in the sample, and then negotiate, and so, for the cloth, I do do not know, I started every day, sitting beside the computer, doing nothing, and no one about me, but the boss knows it. Later, asked me to walk around the market, to printing and dyeing plant in the look, learn some of the survival distribution process. Finally ran out to take the air, and I am very happy. Unseasonably hot, very high temperature dyeing factory, see a lot of front-line workers, the clothes are wet, the machine next to the temperature of at least 50 degrees, also saw some young people my age, look confused. At that time, I was thinking, if I do not read, do not go to college, maybe I like them now stand 50 degree heat the workshop. May in fact still the same, I stand here now. My heart slightly shaking a bit, this time I came to understand why the parents had let me read, though life so difficult. Because they know that there is so backward in our rural areas, reading is the only children's opportunities to succeed. Although I do not what kind of hybrid, you can see I do not have parents like many young people standing in the shop 12 hours a day, carrying 1,500 yuan in wages, they feel very pleased that their children are well ex-dividend, work is also wearing a suit. This is the parents. In fact, I do not think I'm better than them, on the contrary, I feel more embarrassed, and I read more than they book for nearly 5 years, spending nearly 10 million, there are 5 years and even beyond, but now I do how what? Is still 0! ! Sometimes I sleep at night, coupled with high temperature, I almost have a trance. During the super to see me from Shanghai, he lived in the little house I rent, do not fall asleep one night, the fan has no function, night sweat. Before I left, he patted my shoulder and said, brother suffer! Simple phrase almost made me tears, the real victims are my heart.

done almost 2 months, almost did not do anything, I was still a trance. The boss told me that wages count, you do not come tomorrow! When I was a little bit shocked that he did not intend to do so has been, did not expect the boss to quit me so quickly. This is the first time will I be dismissed. So, I feel there is no face, this matter has never said to anyone, including parents and super, and I always felt that dismissal is a very not face things. I told the parents that do not want to dry, to go.

This is what I do on the short-term job, the outcome is the boss fired me. Soon, I also like to leave the Suzhou escape, to go to another beautiful city of Hangzhou ------ ........

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11 22.

feeling tired today, like early to accompany his wife to rest, now extract the words to share with friends.

life can not wait for three things:

The first is powerless over my life ... ...

second the dream of 20 years of age, the age of 60 when it is realized, it would be like a situation? ? ?

example, your dream is to be the age of 20 can buy a Ferrari sports car, and then to Germany's unlimited speed highways Hurricane. You have been working hard, and finally to 60 years old, and finally affordable sports car, but to achieve the dream of a young man, I am afraid it is beyond their grasp ... ...

third is the br>
family can not wait, maybe we are still young, the future has a lot of time to allow us to explore, work hard, but our family? They still have time to wait for us succeed? ? ? So we still have time to make money, let them live a good life, let them be proud of our? ? ?

still while the wind blows the tree

not wait for child wants his parents

This is a lot of people, is where a lot of people a lifetime of regret.

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11 23.

2007 年 8 months, Hangzhou. Graduation anniversary.

2007 is destined is a crazy, perhaps at a long historical trend, it is for many, many people go to nostalgia, bittersweet.

This year, the stock index points from the 2657 Chinese stocks rose to a record high 6124 points, or up to 130%. This allows many individual stock investors and non-crazy people, this may be that we can not experience life opportunities, and to come in this generation.



stock market gains are not large, but after 2006, China's stock market in just two years time, up more than 5 times as the world's most dazzling pearl in the stock market. In 2007 the bull market is based on the substantial growth in business performance, as listed companies performance in 2005 entered the period of rapid growth, coupled with the central enterprises to promote the overall market and asset into a significant business performance, triggering the company stock rose, and as cross-shareholdings among listed companies is relatively common, in the split share structure reform, enterprises change the nature of the original legal person shares can be sold after the lift, resulting in a significant increase in corporate investment income, and further lead to price rise, thus forming a virtuous cycle, which is the medium-term earnings growth in 2007 far exceeded market expectations of the main reasons.

This is my stock analysts cited a statement.

is this year, I came into contact with the stock. For a child from the countryside to come out, even reading the university, the original stock, or I know nothing about, think about the time seems to be a college elective course about the stock, but I did not listen, really regret.

a university student, Ming, a securities company in Hangzhou, work, client manager do, that is, stocks referrals to customers, pick up from the commission in the commission. Phone for stocks that do well tomorrow, I hesitate to rush to, they go to him. I increasingly found that I highly dependent, wherever can not do without friends, classmates and relatives, and sometimes I wonder if one day I really put a man in a strange city, how can I survive, But I've never experienced. Ming, then do account manager, wages will get 8,000 yuan / month, when I heard the numbers, my blood surging, with deep shock that we mixed together in the university for 4 years, just graduated a year, his salary I turned 8 times, I felt under a great blow. The only similarity is that when we are still single.

play for a few days after the introduction in the next, I entered this well-known securities companies, life began the day in Hangzhou. Hangzhou is really paradise, the city beautiful, very clean, the West Lake is obsessed people, I soon fell in love with it. Now my mind, there are two of my favorite cities, Chengdu and Hangzhou. Hangzhou, left me with a beautiful and painful memories ........

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But three years old, I was nothing. Like, I'm long-distance running, I've set a goal, 8,000 meters, I soon discovered, to Paozhuopaozhao, but he still is a great effort, and instead want to run 10,000 meters, and I to continue to run, but is coming soon, I'll continue and running, no goal is to run, do not know what is the goal, you know in front of goal, I really have no strength, and breath, but to gas, I found, the goal is the starting point for me, I will not have to end. I'm not thirty, and I think it is one year old, I think a wolf is a year old. Who can become a major event, only the wolf, just give me a bone, I'll bite fiercely up! Caesar no mouth!

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see a lot of friends that, in this era have a love for your wife to have been very happy, getting along well. Yes, my wife is our greatest wealth. So, once owned, be sure to cherish, may be found as quickly as possible single friends are half of your bless you.

can not say that in a company or a local dry on the bad, in fact, I now feel this might be better, provided that in the future we can see here, to see hope. However, I changed so much work, or do not see the future. But it is undeniable that period I really learned a lot, a variety of industry knowledge, and interpersonal skills, work hard ...... these will be my precious wealth, if one day I careless words stand out. I have heard the saying: When you are suffering poverty have not been successful with other people when the hardships and suffering that you can only become the laughing stock of others, and when you succeed, they will share with you the experience, but also for others praise your capital. However, we now have not had this right. Once, I asked a sister, is a success, he is the owner of a gardening company, every day, driving a car, go out and do sales, running the business, I asked her, you are now very rich, have enough money to live a better life , why do so to bear the dirty looks, and I, poor, and sometimes even survival can not be resolved, but I could not go out running the business, talk to strangers, get humiliated. She just told me, when you have not even afford the regular meals, you have any dignity, the dignity of the poor had to. I remember these words very deep, yes, even when we are poor can not afford to eat rice when we have any dignity? ....... Over the years, to walk this way ...

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11 24. As if spring has come, as these days are warm and sunny, very pleasant.

when I officially entered the securities firms, when the Shanghai stock index has risen to nearly 5,000. I began to experience training, and we will study together. This is Asia's largest securities firms, with 8 in the business department of Hangzhou, when each business department like ours, there are dozens of account managers who have to recruit people still kept, especially those background or Hangzhou local people, because it better develop customer.

basic salary is 700 yuan at the time, no food, accommodation, but many of my colleagues could get 8,000 yuan a month. The first month I took a 700, just for a stranger came to this city, a short development is still quite difficult customers. However, when the market is really hot, operating room every day full of new people who rank long account team, and even never knew what the old stock, have come up with their own pension money to buy the stock from , funds, and now think is incredible.

This can be the most relaxed I have a job, the stock market opened 3 hours a day, our working hours and only so long. I had the time to share knowledge, tutorial, this is the first I know nothing about. Slightly familiar with the period of time, me and a colleague was assigned to a Bank of China, extended stay, which was the most common way of marketing directly to customers in the bank, fill in the information, direct accounts. The crowd was not buying stock funds sub-size customers, and 10,000 more than many, many large customers have to securities companies, and we're still doing a lot of customers, took the first month beginning more than 2000 dollars, feeling it is easy.

time to do this is really very simple,UGG bailey button, some customers have told us that securities companies are very interested in and we are very enthusiastic, want to find out from us what we all know if the same number of insider In fact,bailey UGG boots, we just put in more than their stock of knowledge only, maybe I have not much they know. But I still filled with really understand the way, to introduce them to the stock, recommended funds have racked their brains have learned to use them, see K line graph, that are also flicker a lot of customers. In fact, we do not stock this thing can be said that accurate, to say the stock market determines everything, which also lack some skills, but most people do not know.

can be said, was full stock, when people heard that I occasionally encounter a time when stock market is doing, are particularly enthusiastic, want me to talk a few words, I would solemnly with their analysis. Bragging and that they can come to open an account, buy stock funds. That feeling of being respected so I have some floating in the air, I never thought about doing sales there so simple, so happy.

was also a high school in Hangzhou, east, Hangzhou work after graduation, I started and clear mixed with live, and later moved east to live here because it is both sides of the run, they can be exempt from rent, which a lot of money to the province.

the stock market quickly rushed to the highest point 6124,UGG boots, as we all like crazy, out of a new fund, will soon be sold out, the small proportion of the quota, many people buy. We spread rumors that the end of 2007, the stock will break through the 10,000 point, investors have heard this news, one by one all excited! ! We are also excited, watching the glowing red tape every day, there are untold sweet. Impulse is always short, and soon, the market began to shock, getting slower and slower rate of rise, and began to fall, but also sometimes ascribed. But this did not discourage investors, passion, madness remains the same, the stock market is still the hub of 10,000 points of rhetoric echoed the air. Can, after all, fall to fall to the end of 2007, the stock market has fallen 4,000 points, the public began to waver.

during my salary of about 3,000, the highest one took 4500, that is May 2008 I left the securities firm's day .........

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wife and sleep early, some of her recent ill health. Night, very quiet, where I now live in suburbs, small voice of a car.

I just finished eating, and soon, drank Gu Yue Long Shan, I'm not drinking, not smoking, had smoked, but not addiction, it does not suck for a long time, but it is also save a lot of money, addition to the body that is good. Rarely drink wine, beer, bottles it up. Recently occasionally drink wine, eat kimchi, feeling carefree carefree!

married life gradually calm down flat, no waves. The biggest dream is to find a good way, to earn enough money to buy a house, watching a lot of hard money to give the landlord is not too happy, the biggest desire is to live in their own house. However, if can not find the way out, with a low wage, perhaps, a lifetime is to live a house, I kept thinking to a kind of sad.

brother just graduated from upstairs, hope it will not affect your beautiful dreams, perhaps you know the cruel reality in advance of your way will have better guidelines, at least not so blind. As for securities companies to leave, of course, be compelled to form the next section will be carefully informed.

feel no memory of the cells tonight, my friends, but also get an early night for tomorrow to continue its efforts, good night!

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11 26.

just a drink, a little bit dizzy. And his wife had little trouble awkward, she said that I engage in public health, a mess room, neighborhood, and that I made a fire, I did not say anything. His wife is a stronger and independent person, a bad temper a bit, do things particularly seriously. Her salary is higher than I am, which is often very stressful to me. I always feel that the biggest mistake is not now earn more money too. See also his wife is pregnant up for work the morning, I was pain, a piercing pain. I can not give my beloved woman comfortable life, she looks so haggard I am particularly uncomfortable. With his wife, did not allow his wife to live a good life, and perhaps this is why many people can not erase the pain. Men should make the women happy, but I do not do it. Her sleep!

securities companies have done about 8 - 9 months, (yes, correct a mistake, the stock market opening time is 4 hours a day, in front of me actually said into 3 hours) in addition to just the first few months, the stock market has been begun to slide, there is no longer magical. Our work has become increasingly difficult. Less and less account of the investors, our commission has plummeted, the company who are prepared for the Conference, the policy more stringent. The sale of securities companies is almost entirely dependent on the market, prices good, deal more, our commission will be more, the market is poor, we took stock not moving, the fund did not buy it, we lose funding, but also We have to start thinking forced to retreat.

securities companies in the welfare of this great, big companies may be different, for the holidays made things particularly, Mid-Autumn Festival, Chinese New Year have made a lot of gifts, clothing, etc., there was another, of course, attributed to this wave of bull market, the company made a lot of money. Forgot the explain, our manager is a woman, 40, and single, used to be a manager of the insurance, especially strong, let us all listen to her arrangements, her aversion to particularly large number of people, certainly including me, Zong Gong I did not and she said a few words. Later I heard that she due to economic crime, was detained! A strong woman like this life is not happy, this is my own feelings. University students and colleagues clearly, at work during the company also transferred across the fast-food shop, do face Gaijiao Fan, tea and the like, is beginning to feel is to make money, anyway, has to do now, do not save money and to shop business is not easy. I often eat at the hotel to take advantage of, but also learned to do during the tea. I also opened a tea after the resignation of a basis point to do.

2008 年 5 months, I formally resigned. In the securities company, I also do a few credit cards. Credit card, but also the pain in my heart, when the brush feel particularly cool, but the high interest rates and SMS reminders of money has been around me, and I've been in debt to being. Only now completely paid off, credit card, I think really will never be used, or their own overdraft. But later, I was in Hangzhou for half a year to do a bank to sell credit cards work, so I will never forget, in my opinion, selling the credit card that may be even more difficult than doing the insurance!

resignation, I began a period of freelance life ...... maybe you will not have the experience of a lifetime .......

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11 27. If the above ad is deleted, the administrator is really good. Thank friends

attention and blessing. I have to state what, this is not writing suspense novels, this is my step by step out of the footprints, black and white, it is so true, there may be friends more than I have experienced, just want to share with everyone to share and hopefully into the community for the stage just slightly older sibling to help.

is it, only his wife had left, and when we left, only his wife, and his wife will find it is more worthy of our love, how many women in modern society along with us, nothing will be dead set on a man! !



credit card, is preparing to persuade friends to do the card is best not to do, and always will be negative, not the money end and pushing endless debt, they might will drop a bad credit, hold the money in their own hands is part of our own money.



society is not easy, if given the opportunity when the boss is willing to work for no one but the boss will always be a minority, there will always be the boss he distinguishes. Working hard to make money for themselves, it does not matter, but often we have exhausted themselves losing money for himself.





2008 年 5 months, I quit again! Became vagrants, empty all day to walk in the beautiful West Lake River. Hangzhou, really beautiful, I like, but I was not in the mood to enjoy, I am well aware that even if the fairies passed before my face, I can only afford to look glances, because I need to survive, has been told at home I'm fine, fine, I can not do something for the home, but just can not let my family be afraid, they did not know I quit, and they often praise me in front of their loved ones in such a large securities company to work, let me blush.

so wandering.



filed in May, I have to mention last year's earthquake that deprive countless souls, May 12, 2008, the Chinese people will never forget the pain, but also happened to our generation, perhaps the old days have been doomed, our generation will never experience an extraordinary, earthquakes, typhoons, snow ...... the first time to hear when the Sichuan earthquake, my heart is trembling a bit, I have many students in Chengdu, as well as Mianyang, Deyang, the most severe earthquake in the region. After the earthquake, the students called immediately to the contact, several still have to pass, but there are not contact the sheep, and telecommunications disruption, and later, he said, then they all go hide in the mountains! Instant the earthquake was deprived of more than 10 million lives before the disaster, we are so small and fragile, to see countless lives in the disaster are struggling, there are more than 100 hours buried in the ground, relying on their own urine and Warriors of blood to save their lives, more than one occasion my eyes moist, had good live! ! How our happiness and satisfaction, had a very long time, Meimei think of these, I Du Qing Qing to tell myself that life is really good, I'm very happy. Yes, compared with those lost souls, how lucky we are. But that feeling as time goes by, it gradually found a life but it is still difficult. Remember reading a dialogue, let me never forget: go down the coal mining workers asked, asked,



during which I lived here in the East, as well as colleagues in the East, a special forces soldiers out of the sea. There was one of my college classmates, Fig. We live with four bachelor, hang out for almost a year.

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finally heard the sound of derision and contempt! Yes, maybe you more than I specialist mixed cattle, cattle than most people, but does not mean you always are cattle. Each person's situation is different, do not need sympathy, of course, there will be combat, but we are trying to struggle with.

do not remember the pride of billionaires we have a lot of middle school or high school diploma only, we feel that this important?

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11 29.

tired today, to share with you an experience I had:

each life will always try to walk the road a lot, a lot of road just short of a ride, and some even have no memory of the fragments on the early end to the journey. In fact, many roads are suffering we need to make a decision to carry out hard to try and explore, with its own success factors closely linked and interrelated.

way I passed many, many already do not go his way, because those roads are not suitable for me, because they understand what they should go. Many dead in the road, I spent a lot of money and effort to give up when their course will be very reluctant, very hard to accept, but people should learn to face difficulties, learn to give up, only to give up some things they do not own, those who can get their own.

many people my age are very hesitant, they worry about the outcome, they expect success but they do not want to pay, they sometimes take things I said, watching him do it do it now is not like us . I always smile when a person's own unsuccessful in what capacity should legitimately go to persuade them, at least not yet found themselves.

However, now I understand why they would have pity on them virtually Min, it is because he had walked the streets, though those roads do not bring me success and wealth did not bring me , but I have become stronger in defeat, reason, become more objective to examine its own way, to choose which path to take, and not like them bewildered and just.

chose the road to be brave and go, no matter which way the momentum is still Jing thorn flowers, but when you take the first step must be confident and firm. All results from the process will only make way for more rugged hesitation and more narrow. If you really to go elsewhere when you learn to give up, give the error it means you leave a step closer to success.

Do not hesitate, we are not young, not young resident, choose the right path, choose a path of their own, bravely go on, pay the sweat and effort, you will reap a not the same joy, the joy reflected in our faces, the joy of breeding in our hearts, in the years under water, open the most gorgeous flowers.

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The wife and I met the experience to get married, my wife how I would fancy a boy struggling in poverty, I will write this down, but not yet recalled to the present, there are several important experience, will soon be written.

upstairs single friends and do not worry, fate will certainly come, but have not yet met, the opportunity we must seize the time, bless you.

course, there are a lot of people than I am bitter, but there are many, many people better life than we spent an interesting and fulfilling, so that the lower water flow downwards, I do not think anyone do not aspire to better life, no one will not give up the pursuit of quality of life.

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right, civil engineering school friend, hello, do not complain about your profession, the fact is no better professional, like I learned 4 years down the ITC found that did not learn anything. And then the most regret I did not learn how professional civil engineering, civil engineering profession is also a focus of our professional schools, the employment rate is very high, more importantly, if I learn a civil engineering, perhaps I'm already into the super-company , he was trying to get me into, but I do not professional counterparts, and if learned is a civil case, now I am cow! ! This is the life bar .......

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12 January 1.

thank you friends for concern. I was 83 years, and his wife's income not required of course, will have their own high income requirements, but I have not met. Life can not say no fun, has been very flat, has been eager to earn more money, more opportunities to find points. Wish all friends and happy!

2008 年 5 or so months ago, resigned. 5.1 The trip back to their parents home, the family insists on giving his girlfriend introduced, non-let me go back to look. The girl was very good, called Mei looks bad, do not read the books, work in factories, as only 20 years old, height about me. Her parents are familiar with my parents, my good girl very good impression on me, they know my family is not rich, but no requirements, it makes me very moved. I have a feeling she is nothing special, neither good nor bad, knowledge and awareness will occasionally chat, go out on the Internet, almost none who held hands with. I do not like is talking to her, almost did not speak Mandarin, I might drift away too long, not very adapted to the dialect, although I said Mandarin is not good, but I still envy people who say good friends. 3 days or so, I said to go to work, and back to Hangzhou, in fact, I have resigned at that time! ~ Later and she would not touch with a lukewarm, back during the trip, and visit the trip Mei Street, home of both sides to sit a bit, but then I went to Hangzhou, and then later, I do not how, and she contact, and always feel that nothing can be said, simply not in touch! Parents have asked me, dismiss me, and such a good girl and there is no requirement for my family, why I do not agree, I refuse to touch it! Mother is very sad, plum, too. I was really no thinking, no work, and having no common topic, not in a city, so farewell. This is not what a relationship, there is little memory, but a family-style blind date.

to Hangzhou from the parents here, I began a difficult journey. Moment do not want to work, can not find work. I can think of reselling something, do something about small business, every day, all the wholesale market in Hangzhou, make, and later found a battery charger to charge the phone's mobile, then think this is very new, just out of something, the market on very little. After a series of inquiries, I found a wholesale this thing, in Hangzhou, I'll get nearly 2,000 of the goods, started my retail experience. My experience is not in the supermarket, not in the market, but not in their own shop, I began a career in almost a month to spread ...... 

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